It is relatively easy to be your best self in the very beginning of a relationship, but as time goes on it’s normal to become more comfortable and stop trying as hard. When you want to be the woman a man wants to marry, there are a few qualities you definitely want to possess.
Here are five of the qualities that will make the man you are dating want to marry you:
1. Do not let yourself go
Whether you have been dating for nine months or nine years, you do not want to let yourself go because you’ve become comfortable in your relationship It’s important that you work to keep yourself active, healthy, and looking good. You don’t want to stop trying once you have the man and relationship you want. Dressing up and trying to seduce your man isn’t just for the beginning of a relationship. Putting, and keeping, your best foot forward in all areas is a good way to get him to want to marry you.
2. Be ambitious
Men find ambition attractive. If you are hoping to find a man that will support you so that you do not have to work, you might have trouble finding a man who is eager to marry you. It is important to find what you love to do in life.
When you know what you want and go after it with passion, you are more interesting and attractive to a man. You will show him that life with you will never be boring.
3. Be the woman he can count on
If you want to be the woman a man wants to marry, you should be the one person your boyfriend knows he can always count on. Relationships are about being there for each other through thick and thin. Life isn’t always rainbows and butterflies. If he knows you will be there when he loses his job, has a bad day, or is sick with the flu, you’ll be the kind of woman he will want to marry.
4. Put effort into the relationship
Showing that you are eager and willing to work on yourrelationship is a quality that will make a man want to marry you. Relationships can have ups and downs of course, so when you hit a rough patch, you want to show that you are going to stick around and work through things as a couple instead of running away at the first sign of trouble. Putting effort into the relationship also includes things like spending quality time together and being willing to compromise on activities.
5. Express negative feelings in a healthy way
Being overly jealous, intensely angry or chronically sad are not attractive qualities. You can express negative feelings in a healthy way. It is perfectly fine to be jealous or angry when another woman is giving your boyfriend attention. It will let him know that you still care and know it is possible to lose him. Bad jealousy is the kind that is controlling and clingy and a big turn-off.
No person will enjoy being screamed at or having to walk on eggshells around you. Also, if you are constantly a downer, even friends and family will start to avoid you as well as a boyfriend. Having negative emotions are completely normal but must be expressed from a place of vulnerability to achieve the best response from your significant other.
If you want to be the woman your boyfriend proposes to, you should always put forth your best self. You also want to continue being your best self as consistently as possible regardless of how long you have been dating. Most importantly, this should continue through the engagement period and marriage